TRESTLEBOARD
December, 2007

 

From the East

 
Dear Brethren:
 
 
 

     Another wonderful year is about to come to an end. I would like to take this opportunity to thank all of the brethren, and my family, for their support of Cherrydale Lodge, its appendant bodies, along with the charity and brotherly love that has been displayed throughout the year. I would be remiss not to thank Worshipful John Frank, Right Worshipful Don Strehle, Worshipful Travis Hilliard, Brother John Clair; and Brothers Chris Haught, Justin McGovern, Gilberto Rosado, Drew Lemberg, Brother Dipp, for their outstanding teamwork throughout the year. Whether it was degrees, contacting prospective members, cooking and serving the meals, going to other area lodge meetings or youth events, everyone stepped up and did what they could to provide leadership on behalf of Cherrydale. Please forgive me if I have left someone out. We have many outstanding brethren at Cherrydale.

     Our guest speakers truly provided us with a breadth and depth of masonry with much education and enjoyment. How grateful we all are to have had such a diverse group of Masonic speakers in our midst. We were also blessed with the brotherhood of the fellow 54th Masonic District Brethren who supported our degree teams throughout the year.

     As I dedicated this year to my father-in-law, Worshipful Hassan Kiser, Past Master of Cherrydale, I am especially thankful that I have been able to confer upon Jeremiah, Hassan’s oldest grandson, his Entered Apprentice degree. Brother Hassan enjoyed Cherrydale, its friendship and memories he held close to his heart. Often he would talk about freemasonry and the lasting impressions it had on him throughout his adult life. Hassan was truly a man I looked up to from the time I met him, and not just because he was six inches taller than I! He was humorous much of the time, and always put in to practice the principles we are taught in freemasonry. It was with Hassan’s inspiration that I contemplated joining freemasonry. I am grateful for the friendship we had the short time I knew him. In his last years, Hassan went to lodge with his son “Pete” Kiser, who is Past Master of Seaside Lodge in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. It was Pete’s lodge who performed Worshipful Hassan’s Masonic Funeral Service in January of 2002.

     We have enjoyed visits by brethren from around the world, and hope that during the next year, we will continue to increase our membership coupled with the visitors who find Cherrydale Lodge as a home away from home amongst their brethren. I enjoyed raising the DeMolay who I have seen grow into fine young men, and I am sure will continue on the path to enlightenment.

     The joint communication with Andrew Jackson Lodge at the George Washington Masonic National Memorial went very well. Most Worshipful Stewart Wilson Miner received his 50 year pin by the Grand Master. Our stewards along with Andrew Jackson’s did an excellent job with the meal prior to the meeting.

     The last 54th Masonic District’s Blood Drive at Arlington - Centennial Glebe Lodge on November 17th, was well attended.

     We will be delivering to our widow’s holiday poinsettias in December.

     In follow up to Youth Night, we served refreshments for the Job’s Daughters at their November 20th meeting, and served for the Fairfax Rainbow Assembly at their Movie Night on November 30th. We are having a Game Night with the DeMolay, on Saturday December 15th 7-10pm at Kemper-Macon Ware Lodge at 411 Little Falls Street in Falls Church. The DeMolay have decided to also auction themselves off at the game night/holiday party to support the Homeless Shelter in Falls Church. Bethel 1’s installation will be held on Sunday, December 16th at 5 o’clock in the evening at Arlington -Centennial Glebe Lodge at 1 S. George Mason Drive in Arlington just off of Route 50. This is an open youth event that I hope you will be able to attend. The incoming Honored Queen, Elena Barker has as her theme an International format. Thank you for supporting the youth.

     Our first December meeting will be closing the Lodge of Sorrow with election of officers, and on the following Friday, December 14th, holding an open installation of officers. Most Worshipful Stewart Wilson Miner will be the Installing Officer, with light refreshments served by Unity Chapter #201 Order of the Eastern Star after installation. If it is within the length of your cable tow, please attend installation. There will not be a second stated meeting in December.

For my final offering, in this trestle board I have included this for you to consider:

HOW DOES FREEMASONRY ADD VALUE TO OUR LIVES?

     Undoubtedly, the most visible benefit associated with Freemasonry is the friendship, morality, and brotherly love we learn simply by attending Lodge and interacting with the members. It is not unusual for Freemasons to develop lifelong friendships and bonds with other Masons. This should not be surprising as the fraternity represents a society consisting of men with common interests, and such commonality is comforting to us all.

     Aside from this, how does Freemasonry add value to our lives? Frankly, there are several subliminal ways we are affected personally and professionally by our participation in the fraternity, some examples:

· Socialization Skills - through the structured decorum of our formal meetings and the informality of others, we learn to respect, cooperate, participate and network with people. In other words, it influences our behavior in terms of how we interact with our neighbors, friends, coworkers, customers and vendors. This tends to make us more socially adjusted and proactive in our communities and companies.
 
· Speaking and Memorization Skills - our catechisms and degree work, although trying at times, helps sharpen our brains as well as our tongues. Although our terminology may seem somewhat archaic, it is useful for improving one's vocabulary. Further, returning catechisms, and delivering degrees and lectures helps overcome the human fear of audiences and materially assists in making us better public speakers, something that is particularly needed in our professional lives regardless of our occupation.

· Dress - Again, because of the decorum of our meetings, we learn the value of dressing appropriately to cultivate a positive image. I have met several Brothers who have cleaned up their act simply by their association with the fraternity, thereby turning a slovenly image into one that is more positive and professional.

· Organization & Leadership - For those members who become Lodge officers, it is not uncommon to learn basic organization and leadership skills, such as: planning and scheduling, managing records and finances, building maintenance, communications and persuasion, etc. All of this is useful to us in both our personal and professional lives.

· History - as the world's oldest fraternal organization, we impress the need for customs and traditions on all of our members. But beyond this, many Masons become fascinated with our history and learn to research and write on a variety of subjects related to the fraternity. Masons, therefore, appreciate the lessons of history and develop effective writing skills which also help us in the outside world.

· Volunteerism - our philanthropy is legendary and it is impressed on every Mason to help others as generously as their ability permits. Aside from the moneys we donate, Masons learn to volunteer their time to assist others, knowing if they help another, they may expect assistance from others in return. This concept alone is in sharp contrast to today's "dog-eat-dog" corporate culture. Basically, Masons learn a little kindness can go a long way.

· Negotiation Skills - in order to persuade people to move in a specific direction, Lodge officers must learn how to negotiate with others. Such skills are vital not only in our professional lives but also in our personal lives as well.

     Sociologists who have studied Freemasonry have admitted that Freemasonry "takes a good man and makes him better." No, the fraternity is not intended to teach us business skills, but surprisingly it does nevertheless. Nor do I believe anyone joins the fraternity for this purpose. Regardless, these are some of the subliminal perks associated with the fraternity which does, in fact, add value to our lives as well as others we come in contact with.

     Support our incoming officers for the ensuing year at Cherrydale Lodge. I look forward in continuing to assist Cherrydale in maintaining a vital component to the 54th District and Virginia Freemasonry at large. Know that what you say and do makes a difference in someone’s life, whether it’s your family, brethren, or a stranger on the street. Thank you for the opportunity to serve as the Worshipful Master of Cherrydale Masonic Lodge # 42 A.F. & A.M. I wish you safe travels over the holiday season.

See you in Lodge Brother!


 

 
 
Fraternally yours,

Carl Lester Garris, III
Worshipful Master